I have pondered the idea that people become the person that other's see and hear . A friend of mine put a little twist on it. She suggests that people make their opinion of someone based on that person's behavior & looks , which is a reflection of who they are. If that's that case , then we are driving people to their opinion or who we are , aren't we? But are we affected by other's opinion and how they look at us? Do we try harder to become more or less the person other think we are? I always like to be the one I'm comfortable with , so do hanging out with friends ; isn't it awful to know that the person you hang with isn't the real person that he/she really is? They are just trying to suck it up to you? But there's always reasons why everyone has a mask sometimes.

Never judge a book by it's cover.